Declaring your love is always going to be romantic, wherever you are and however you decide to do it. However, down on one knee is a classic for a reason, and we’ve all dreamed of the moment of sliding the ring on the finger. Choosing the ring can be a minefield, especially if you’re not a jewelry wearer, but follow this failsafe guide and you’ll find the perfect piece for your partner.
- Set your budget
Before you start browsing engagement rings online, set your budget. Knowing how much you have to spend means you can streamline your selection and make the process less overwhelming, and sticking to a pre-set price limit will stop you from going beyond your means.
Don’t get caught up in the myth that ‘bigger is better’ when it comes to choosing the perfect ring. The symbolism of love and commitment it represents is much more important than the size of the stone!
- Identify your partner’s style
The next way to whittle down your choice is to identify your partner’s jewelry preferences and everyday style. Look at their wardrobe and come up with a few adjectives to describe the clothes. Are they simple and sophisticated? If soa marquise engagement ring might be perfect. Bright and quirky? Something that is big and bold might work best. Vintage or trendy? Start shopping the antique stores. The answers to these questions will help guide you to a ring that’s in line with their looks.
As part of this investigation, consider closely the color of the jewelry they wear. Most people have a tendency towards gold or silver and corresponding complementary gemstones. You should match their preferred metal, so the engagement ring works with their other accessories.
- Consider their lifestyle
Remember that this is a ring for life and therefore needs to be convenient to wear daily. You must consider your partner’s lifestyle and seek out any areas which might impact this. For example, if they use their hands a lot you’ll need to opt for a scratch-resistant metal and an extra-secure setting for the stone.
Platinum is pricey but worth the investment. Strong yet workable, tough, and with no tarnishing over time, a platinum ring will look as good as new for years even if put under harsh conditions. Titanium is a lightweight and more cost-effective alternative. When combined with other metals, gold is more scratch-resistant than silver: 14K gold is the most durable choice.
- Browse different gemstones
Ever since the iconic De Beers ‘A Diamond is Forever’ ad campaign in 1948, diamonds have been the classic choice for engagement rings. If you’re sticking with tradition, remember the 4 Cs when looking at diamonds: cut, clarity, carat and color. Cut is by far the most important as this is what gives the stone its dazzle, so don’t get caught up in carats.
There are lots of other gemstones available if you’re looking for something more unique. Princess Diana famously chose a sapphire ring which is now worn by Kate Middleton while Jackie Kennedy favored an emerald and diamond combo in a pretty floral design. Other attractive options include deep red rubies, glittering opals, and even pearls.
